Size matters: Finding the right bra...

I’ve had a busy couple weeks seeing clients, and three of them were wearing the wrong size bra. When I pointed it out to her, oneĀ  of the clients made an appointment with me immediately to go to a specialty store to track down the right size. The result: In her new bras, she was thrilled to see that she looks much slimmer and more defined through the torso. Who doesn’t want that?

The other two clients are in the process of losing weight and don’t want to get new bras. I always encourage clients to get new bras along the way. You don’t need many (maybe just one or two) and they don’t need to be expensive. But a bra that really, really fits is key to looking great.

Wondering just how to get that bra? Well, your best bet is to go to a store that specializes in fitting bras, like Sylene, in Washington, DC. But it’s also a good idea to be armed with some basic information. And here’s what inspired this post today: a fantastic overview of bras and bra fit, a guest post at the wonderful Already Pretty by K-Line. Don’t miss it!

Oh, and take a minute to leave comment — I’d love to know your favorite places (online and off) to buy bras and other lingerie.

(Ketura Persellin is an image and wardrobe consultant in Washington, DC. She helps real women look as great on the outside as they are on the inside. To receive a free tipsheet, “101 Ways To Look Your Best,” sign up here for her free email newsletter.)

Elana Kagan confirmation hearings: What ...

It’s possible that no one else will comment on what Supreme Court nominee Elana Kagan wears to these big eventful days in her life.

But you can count on me, friends.

I am eminently NOT qualified to speak to her judicial qualifications for a seat on the bench. I just assume that she is in the ballpark or she wouldn’t have gotten this far. I assume she is extremely smart and capable.

But what she’s telegraphing through her clothing during these judicial confirmation hearings is another thing altogether.

No, I am not diminishing her accomplishments. No, I am not someone who thinks women’s value is in their appearance only, rather than on their brains and achievements. But I do think women do themselves a disservice when their brilliant minds aren’t reflected in the way that they present themselves to the world.

Such is the case with Elana Kagan — possibly a brilliant legal scholar and so on, but at least on one level, not really tuned into what a successful professional woman looks like, circa 2010.

The boxy jacket is an attempt to brighten her look, but it’s not the best shade for her (a warmer color would have been better). It’s boxy in a way intended to make her look slimmer, I imagine, but has the opposite effect. And even before I saw this photo, I was able to guess what she was wearing with the jacket (yawn): a black skirt of some sort, a black short-sleeve or sleeveless shell, sheer black stockings and sensible black shoes.

I want someone this smart to look smart, too, darn it!

Friends, we can learn from this.

For starters, color-blocking is pretty boring unless it is done in a style-conscious, fashion-forward way. Contrary to many women’s assumptions, black doesn‘t match every other color — an outfit based on a black bottom and some-top-or-other isn’t really a put-together outfit. Sure, it may be what everyone else at your DC law firm is wearing, but it isn’t fashion. It isn’t even close. You can do better, and I suspect that deep down you already know it.

Instead, how about a dress? How about a cardigan over it or a cute jacket? Hell, how about a suit with something underneath in a different color or texture or pattern. Mix it up — act as if your clothing is saying something about yourself, because — guess what? — it is! And I know people get bored of hearing it, but what about Michelle Obama’s more professional clothing? (Not all of her clothing, because a lot of it is too cheerful and decorative to be suitable to the halls of power in Washington, DC.)

What do you think about her outfit? If you were nominated to the Supreme Court, what would you wear to the first day of your confirmation hearings?

Update: After listening to Kagan’s testimony, I’m more convinced than ever that she needs a style update — she’s funny and smart, but her image doesn’t telegraph it.

(Ketura Persellin is an image consultant and personal stylist based in Washington, DC. She blogs about personal style and particularly loves writing about the personal style of our most prominent political figures.)

Perfect jacket for summer, then fall...

I went with a client to Anthropologie this morning and although we didn’t get a ton of stuff, I think we were both happy with what she got. One piece she didn’t get but that we both have on a list for her is this fantastic jacket. At $188, it would be a superb purchase for the money — it has tons of beautiful details, a gorgeous print lining, tie belt, covered zipper and above all the wonderful ruffle around the collar. It’s feminine, but if you’re the kind of woman who thinks she hates ruffles, it’s not over-the-top ruffly. I could see a lot of different types of women wearing it. And I love the idea of it over a dress but you could easily see it with a lacy black cami and dark jeans and heels for night.

(Ketura Persellin is an image consultant in Washington, DC, and surrounding suburbs. Wishing you had the perfect jacket to wear at the beach at night and then when it gets cooler this fall? She can help you track down the perfect piece, “shop” your closet, find the right colors to flatter you most, and more. To read what satisfied clients have to say, click here. To find out more about her services, click here. or more about her services, click here.)

Eclipse premiere: Who dressed best?...

Here are pictures from last night’s Eclipse premiere (and here too) but I confess, I don’t really like any of the dresses very much. This is one exception, and there a few others, but for the most part, the look was young, but not young-cute, more like young-silly-and-over-the-top. Too much fabric, too many details, too big, too lopsided, too everything. What did you think?

Perfect summer top...

Here’s another must-have piece — and this is something you could easily wear into Fall! Love!

It comes in other colors, too, at Anthropologie.

Update: A client tried this on the other day, and you know RIGHT where a woman’s belly pooches a little after she’s had a kid — no matter how many crunches a day she does? Well, that’s EXACTLY where that lower gather is. So I still think this is really pretty, but do proceed with caution!

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...

« Previous Entries