Iris Apfel style: Colorful and imaginati...

Wow. Just wow. This is how it’s done, people. Taking risks with your style — because you know that another, possible better outfit, is just inside your closet.

Look at how Iris Apfel uses texture and color, and even though she’s not exactly a minimalist, she doesn’t clutter her look with more of everything. It’s thought-through: the signature glasses, the huge pin with the bangles; the colorful coat layered with a necklace and bracelets. There are no earrings and rings to muddle things. And scroll down with that second outfit and see the pink shoes — what a surprising thing to add, but for me it works. (I have to say that the designers she’s standing with look, by contrast, colorless and dull.) And note that she is NOT a beautiful woman! Just smart and stylish.

Make sure to take five minutes and listen to the video, with Apfel talking about what inspires her (and see all the fantastic pictures of her).

I’m running out to get this book of the show about her.

Holding out for what flatters most...

It never makes sense to settle, not when you’re desperate, not even when something’s on serious sale. Just. Don’t. Settle. No matter what. Hold out for what really fits and flatters you.

I went shopping last week with client of mine who just had a baby and needed some stylish clothes for nursing. We went to Mimi Maternity but there were very few options. So here’s what we did:

  1. Focused on color. Black doesn’t flatter her, but a gunmetal gray V-neck did. She didn’t like the shape but I told her she could wear it lots of different ways. Plus, that gray made her blue eyes really pop. So we got that one, but didn’t settle for the others, which were all either in a color or shape or style that didn’t flatter her. Instead, we ….
  2. Got creative with other options. With no other actual nursing tops available, we went across the street to Loehmann’s and bought a whole bunch of stretchy V-neck and scoop-neck tops that will work just as well, either by being pulled up or pulled down.

I saw her this weekend, and she was rocking that somewhat shapeless top with a cute, wide stretch belt with an animal-print buckle and a black skirt. Oh, and with a cute, tiny baby as the very best accessory!

Sunday, lazy but stylish...

My friend Sunday, lazy but stylishand fellow image consultant from Southern California, Karen Karlsen, recently had two posts on her blog that I found super inspiring. The first was about how she took some Target sweat pants and made them into an outfit that was great for errands and the supermarket — extremely casual but also stylish. Yay! I love that, I live in that, and so do my clients when they can.

The key takeaway for me was Karen’s definition of comfortable: something you’d feel happy sleeping in but could wear out of the house the next day if you wanted or needed. Jeans were ruled out, since they aren’t so comfortable for sleeping in. (Disclosure: I wore red-and-blue stripe pajama bottoms with a white top to a teeny-tiny neighborhood July Fourth parade last year. It felt kind of risky, but of course no one pointed fingers at me and laughed. Not that I noticed, anyway.)

Karen’s second post was a response from a reader about how to style the reader’s new LuluLemon pants. Same idea, basically.

That really inspired me. First I got myself dressed this morning for work in the morning and a kid’s soccer game this afternoon. We might be going out tonight, too — at least, we have a sitter. So I put on cropped black yoga pants, a gray ribbed tank top, a longish dark gray knit tie-front cardigan, new black patent Gizeh Birkenstocks, sparkly headbands from Anthropologie, and a giant Druzy ring. Not what the other moms at the soccer game will be wearing, and a little too dark, but that was sort of my point. (I don’t wear shorts, baseball hats, and running shoes. Ever.)

So here’s what I came up with as three options for a day somewhat like mine. For the first outfit, I love the idea of something that’s as cozy as pajamas but way, way more stylish. (And the fantastic brass Free People necklace with this outfit is just the epitome of insouciant chic.) The second outfit is just a romper — you could wear it to a barbecue, to something boat-related, to a flea market, or around the corner for a latte. The third outfit is just as comfortable, but with a small bag for going out to dinner or a party. I love the T-shirty-ness of it. You can curl up on the sofa at a dinner party and feel as if you’re wearing your sweatpants. Only you’ll look just right for a festive gathering or romantic dinner out.

Let me know what you think — and what your go-to warm-weather casual outfits look like.

Wardrobe planning...

One of the services I get asked about most is making outfits — styling the clothes a client already has in her closet.

It’s a great thing, because it doesn’t involved shopping (which many women loathe, even when I am with them to make it less mysterious, confusing, and frustrating).

We simply take the pieces she already owns and find new ways to wear them. This can lead to a LOT of new outfits and to delighted surprise when a client finds she can get new life out of a piece she’d nearly gotten rid of because she had no way to wear it!

You can do this, too. You could find a little time on a weekend to plan what you’ll wear for the week (just make sure to keep notes, because you’ll forget, even though you think you won’t). You can try pairing new colors together or experiment with silhouettes. Just approach your closet as you would a rack of clothes in the store — that is, without preconception. What works together?

Caveat: You’ll need a mirror for trying the new combinations. And yes, you WILL want to try on the outfits!

Give it a try and let me know how it goes.

White House Correspondents Association D...

Michelle Obama was stunning at the White House Correspondents Association Dinner style. Her draped red dress by Prabal Gurung was, no question, unbelievably beautiful. But, more important, she looked fantastic. That is my big takeaway from this dress: A big-deal dress should be fabulous, sure, but it should shine a spotlight on its wearer, not overpower her.

This dress lived up to that standard. (You can see more images here — especially the jewelry — and here.) Here’s why. The dress itself is so, so gorgeous. But it looks as if it was designed for Mrs. O — that neckline that frames her best assets — her shoulders, neck, and arms — so perfectly. The draping around her hips flatters her there, too. Need convincing? Compare these lines with the buttoned-and-unbuttoned cardigan style she often wears, which just makes her looks hippy.

Here’s another reason it was fantastic for her: the color. She has warm undertones, and the warmth of this yummy tomato red makes her glow. She can wear anything, but she doesn’t look nearly as good, in my opinion, in cooler colors, like the hot pink of this dress. I think she probably knows this and frequently picks dresses in orange and red, like this beauty (below right).

Orange crush

Where’s the glow?

Compare that to the way her skin looks in this cool fuchsia dress. Pretty? Sure. Glowingly incandescent? No, I’d say just a wee bit ashy.

Now, let’s talk about her accessories. The earrings and the upper bracelet are apparently by Bochic, and Mrs. Obama apparently wore another pair by the same company at the Indian State Dinner, as seen here.  I have two things to say about them. First, no matter how much money a client of mine had, I’ve never recommend spending $17,500 on a bracelet that, although striking and beautiful, wouldn’t be something you’d get a lot of wear out of. But maybe she didn’t actually buy them — I really hope not, in fact, because a purchase like that in these times would seem foolish and out of touch politically.

But the other quibble I have is this: The two bracelets, while effective, move the observer’s focus from beautiful Michelle to the bracelets. I get that she loves bracelets on her left hand, and I get that she made the risky move of subbing out her engagement ring for one that better complemented her outfit and bracelets, but the three pieces are too much, and she should have stuck with just one bracelet. (Who’s that second — lower — bracelet by? Leave a comment and let me know!)

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